Comments on: In relationships, besides love, here is the one necessary trait you need to make it last http://www.soulscode.com/besides-love-what-one-trait-have-you-noticed-in-couples-that-have/ Everyone's a Guru Fri, 27 Jan 2012 06:39:06 +0000 hourly 1 By: Soul's Code http://www.soulscode.com/besides-love-what-one-trait-have-you-noticed-in-couples-that-have/comment-page-1/#comment-35340 Soul's Code Sat, 07 Jun 2008 07:42:28 +0000 http://www.soulscode.com/?p=568#comment-35340 This is a deeply moving story with a sense of humor. My own answer to the question would've been: a capacity to recognize, and withdraw, one's unconscious projections. It's the only way your beloved can be seen by you for who they really are, un-colored by the denied material in the basements of our psyches. But then again, I don't have your track-record -- so will defer to your wisdom :) Paul This is a deeply moving story with a sense of humor.

My own answer to the question would’ve been: a capacity to recognize, and withdraw, one’s unconscious projections. It’s the only way your beloved can be seen by you for who they really are, un-colored by the denied material in the basements of our psyches.

But then again, I don’t have your track-record — so will defer to your wisdom :)

Paul

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