Comments on: The unbearable “lateness” of monogamy http://www.soulscode.com/monogamy-what-is-it-good-for/ Everyone's a Guru Tue, 16 Mar 2010 09:54:57 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.7.1 hourly 1 By: Raghuram Natesan http://www.soulscode.com/monogamy-what-is-it-good-for/comment-page-1/#comment-127038 Raghuram Natesan Mon, 12 Oct 2009 14:09:42 +0000 http://www.soulscode.com/monogamy-what-is-it-good-for#comment-127038 Just when you think you know love, there is more to learn. Love therefore is a desire to complete oneself in several dimensions of our personalities. There are times when it brings out the dark sides, but those are the times that one learns more about oneself and more about love. My only advice would be for her to evaluate what makes her choose to move outside an existing relationship and see if there are areas of development that will help her get around it. Just when you think you know love, there is more to learn. Love therefore is a desire to complete oneself in several dimensions of our personalities. There are times when it brings out the dark sides, but those are the times that one learns more about oneself and more about love.

My only advice would be for her to evaluate what makes her choose to move outside an existing relationship and see if there are areas of development that will help her get around it.

]]> By: Rose http://www.soulscode.com/monogamy-what-is-it-good-for/comment-page-1/#comment-125952 Rose Thu, 08 Oct 2009 18:00:10 +0000 http://www.soulscode.com/monogamy-what-is-it-good-for#comment-125952 Pam, you did a great job introducing Polyamory. The keys are honesty, mutual respect and strong self-confidence. I believe that forced monogamy leads to cheating and/or disengagement. The urge to be sexually intimate with more than one person is natural. Polyamory is an alternative to serial monogamy, reducing or eliminating separation turmoil. True love never dies. Why should the relationship? There is a wealth of information available on-line to anyone with goggle. Pam, you did a great job introducing Polyamory. The keys are honesty, mutual respect and strong self-confidence. I believe that forced monogamy leads to cheating and/or disengagement. The urge to be sexually intimate with more than one person is natural. Polyamory is an alternative to serial monogamy, reducing or eliminating separation turmoil. True love never dies. Why should the relationship?

There is a wealth of information available on-line to anyone with goggle.

]]> By: Fernando http://www.soulscode.com/monogamy-what-is-it-good-for/comment-page-1/#comment-124907 Fernando Sun, 04 Oct 2009 06:27:32 +0000 http://www.soulscode.com/monogamy-what-is-it-good-for#comment-124907 *Where* did you get these photos? And that picture of Letterman? have never seen that out there, not even in the saturation coverage after the story broke. *Where* did you get these photos?

And that picture of Letterman? have never seen that out there, not even in the saturation coverage after the story broke.

]]> By: Soul's Code http://www.soulscode.com/monogamy-what-is-it-good-for/comment-page-1/#comment-37564 Soul's Code Sat, 16 Aug 2008 08:13:49 +0000 http://www.soulscode.com/monogamy-what-is-it-good-for#comment-37564 And we are here for You, C Thank you for your openness and courage and trust. And we are here for You, C

Thank you for your openness and courage and trust.

]]> By: Cassandra http://www.soulscode.com/monogamy-what-is-it-good-for/comment-page-1/#comment-37531 Cassandra Fri, 15 Aug 2008 11:39:55 +0000 http://www.soulscode.com/monogamy-what-is-it-good-for#comment-37531 thanks for all of the comments, they have led me to do a lot of reflection in the past few days. i think that i don't want to get emotionally close to the men in my life (or people in general) and that's why i always have two "relationships" going at the same time. i can never truly commit to one person this way. wow, i have a lot of internal work to do. i thank this site for allowing me to get my issues out there and to get feedback that otherwise i don't know where i would get (for free too :) thanks for all of the comments, they have led me to do a lot of reflection in the past few days. i think that i don’t want to get emotionally close to the men in my life (or people in general) and that’s why i always have two “relationships” going at the same time. i can never truly commit to one person this way.

wow, i have a lot of internal work to do. i thank this site for allowing me to get my issues out there and to get feedback that otherwise i don’t know where i would get (for free too :)

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